[Wedding Red Packet Guide 2025/26] 4 Key Factors Determining Red Packet Amounts + How to Write Wedding Lai See Envelopes

Whenever we receive a "red bomb" wedding invitation from relatives or friends, we are naturally happy for their joyful news, but a "sweet dilemma" often follows: "How much should the wedding red packet be?" In fact, wedding red packet amounts in Hong Kong are not fixed. They vary depending on the format or venue, such as luxury hotel banquets, standard hotel lunch receptions, traditional Chinese restaurants, or unique wedding venues. Giving a red packet is not just about etiquette—it's also a way to support and bless the newlyweds.

This article shares the latest trends for wedding red packet amounts in 2025/26, along with an in-depth analysis of the 4 key factors that determine the amount, helping you easily choose the most appropriate heartfelt blessing!

Wedding red packet amounts typically reflect the average cost per table at the banquet venue. Guests can roughly gauge the expected amount from the venue or format indicated on the invitation, then adjust based on their relationship with the couple and the estimated per-head cost. Below is a reference table based on market surveys and averages (these amounts are for reference only):

Factor 1: Relationship with the Couple

The red packet amount is usually proportional to how close you are to the couple. For ordinary friends or colleagues, referring to the median amount for the banquet venue is sufficient. However, if you are close friends, best man/maid of honor, or siblings, it's recommended to give slightly above the standard amount to express your most sincere and heartfelt blessings.

Factor 2: Red Packets for Relatives

For relatives, especially closer elders, red packet amounts are typically higher than for friends. This reflects traditional etiquette and shows respect and celebration for family joyous occasions. Elders may give "large" red packets or substantial gifts, often far exceeding standard amounts.

Factor 3: Bridesmaids / Groomsmen / Best Man / Maid of Honor

Generally, as key supporters behind the scenes (bridesmaids/groomsmen), the couple often waives or suggests no red packet is needed. However, some may still choose to give a symbolic amount (e.g., $500 - $800), or discuss with the couple. The focus here is on expressing support and heartfelt wishes, rather than strictly following standard amounts.

Factor 4: Non-Attendance Scenarios

If you receive an invitation but cannot attend due to circumstances, it's still recommended to send a red packet as a blessing. The amount can reference levels for "cake card only" or "registration ceremony only." For closer relationships, consider a higher amount to convey both blessings and a touch of apology.

When giving a red packet, proper writing etiquette on the lai see envelope is equally important. Traditionally, envelopes use vertical Chinese writing. Here are practical guidelines and examples:

Traditional Vertical Writing Guidelines

• Recipient (Upper Section): Write in the top right corner. Include the couple's names with honorifics, e.g., "To [Couple's Names]" or "Presented to [Couple's Names]".
• Blessing Phrase: Write prominently in the center, such as wedding congratulations like "Forever United in Heart", "Eternal Love", or "Perfect Match".
• Sender (Lower Section): Write in the bottom left corner with your name and respectful closing, e.g., "[Your Name] Respectfully Congratulates".

Wedding Blessing Phrase Examples

General Blessings for Lai See Envelopes

• Chinese: 永結同心、天作之合、鸞鳳和鳴、新婚快樂、百年好合。
• English: Congratulations! / Wishing you a lifetime of love and happiness!

For the Groom

• Chinese: 才子佳人、郎才女貌。
• English: Happy Wedding to the Groom!

For the Bride

• Chinese: 珠聯璧合、花好月圓。
• English: Happy Wedding to the Bride!

1. Must use red envelopes: For joyous occasions, always use red—avoid white, black, blue, or other non-festive colors.
2. Avoid cartoon characters or zodiac designs: Choose envelopes with "Double Happiness" (囍), dragon-phoenix motifs, flowers, or simple elegant designs for formality.
3. Avoid odd numbers or those containing "4": Traditionally, amounts must be even (symbolizing pairs), and avoid "4" (sounds like "death").
4. Prefer even or auspicious numbers: Suggested amounts like $800, $1,200, $1,500 (seen as even "15"), $1,800, or $2,000, featuring "8" (prosperity), "9" (longevity), or even endings.

After guests present their red packets, it's time to enjoy the wedding festivities. Modern wedding setups often feature welcome signature boards, photo prop frames, and other printed items to create lasting memories. If you're a couple planning your decor and want something unique, check out these wedding-specific printing products from Bannershop:

Recommendation 1: Portable Media Backdrop

The wedding backdrop is the visual focal point and perfect photo background. Bannershop's portable backdrops offer great value with high-resolution digital printing, custom-designed to match your theme. Made from matte fabric—durable, tear-resistant, and wrinkle-free—for flexible venue use!

Product Features:

• UV printing for vibrant, three-dimensional colors
• Easy setup—no tools required
• Lightweight telescopic frame, portable
• Includes carry bag + frame + fabric

Recommendation 2: Portable Tripod + Foamboard

Foamboards are ideal for welcome areas or directional signs. Lightweight and easy to move, perfect for guiding guests. This set includes a tripod with clips for versatile use!

Product Features:

• Telescopic stand—easy storage
• Very lightweight and portable
• Paired with specified size board
• Affordable set price

Note: Delivery as fast as 2 working days.

Recommendation 3: Canvas Print & Signature Cloth

Canvas prints and signature cloths add artistic flair and sentimental value! Canvas with couple's photos elevates elegance; signature cloth collects guest blessings as a keepsake.

Product Features:

• Off-white fabric
• Oil painting-like texture and natural colors post-printing
• Waterproof, vibrant, thick canvas texture

Note: Canvas may shrink ~3%—allow bleed margin.

Recommendation 4: Everyday Pull-Up Banner

Essential for wedding setups! Everyday frame—more stable than plastic. Choose materials like anti-curl PP for indoor/outdoor or eco-friendly YUPO.

Product Features:

• Affordable, easy setup and portable
• High-definition vibrant printing
• Sturdy aluminum construction
• Includes stand (silver base + poles) + print + carry bag

Recommendation 5: Selfie Frame Props

Perfect for livening the atmosphere! Guests pose creatively in front of backdrops. Bannershop offers die-cut custom shapes beyond rectangles!

Product Features:

• Custom die-cut shapes
• Lightweight and portable
• Adds fun to events

Note: Design files required (.ai / .PDF).

Recommendation 6: Label Stickers

Small stickers show thoughtful details! Perfect for favors, cakes, or invitations—adding personalization. Removable without residue.

Product Features:

• Half-cut for individual or sheet use
• Waterproof, sun-resistant, scratch-proof
• White base, easy-remove adhesive
• No minimum order, no layout needed

1. Do bridesmaids or groomsmen need to give red packets?

Traditionally, the couple waives them for the bridal party. A symbolic amount is fine. Couples often return larger gifts or packets to thank them—flexible based on heartfelt intent.

2. For "Whole Family Invited," how much?

This invites your entire household. Since amounts are per person, for a couple, double the single amount. Adjust slightly higher for auspicious even numbers.

3. Must give a red packet if not attending?

Yes, traditionally "gift arrives even if person doesn't." Especially after receiving a formal invitation. Reference non-banquet levels ($300 - $500); higher for close ties.

4. Is "electronic red packet" acceptable?

With technology, FPS or digital transfers are increasingly accepted by younger couples. Confirm first, add blessing note and name. For traditional elders, prefer physical red envelopes.